A tremendous amount of research has been conducted on birth order for the past 100 years. Everyone is born into a family and everyone tend to participate in this birth order traits. so all are affected, one way or another, by birth order based character...
So, is it true that we're all born with traits or character that matches our birth order, or is it simply a made-up condition????
Of course birth order do not guarantee that the eldest child will have all the traits typically associated with the eldest child but birth order tends to emphasize the traits that the child already possess....
so, let us see....
According to my own experience with my siblings, i think that some characters is similar and some are not..
My brother the eldest of all, became responsible when he reach his 20s... he is also an adult pleaser .. haha and that does irritate me..sometimes...and he obeys rules, not all but mostly..also a natural leader and on-time always..so kinda most of the traits can be seen..but some are not though..
In the middle , its me and my sis. So lets just compare the traits with ME.. I am flexible and easy-going..i can adjust most of the time..and its so true i am the peacemaker of the family..i am also very generous ..quite secretive too..i think all the traits do match me.
Now,my little sis..all the traits match my younger sister traits perfectly. hehe.. She is very creative, she always makes something new out of the waste paper and boxes. She is also financially irresponsible. she also get bored easily.. She also has a great sense of humor..
What i would like to conclude that birth traits depends on the order and also mainly on the situation the child is brought up..
So, is it true that we're all born with traits or character that matches our birth order, or is it simply a made-up condition????
Of course birth order do not guarantee that the eldest child will have all the traits typically associated with the eldest child but birth order tends to emphasize the traits that the child already possess....
so, let us see....
First | Middle | Last | Only |
---|---|---|---|
Natural Leader | Flexible | Risk-taker | Close to parents |
High Achiever | Easy-going | Outgoing | Self-control |
Organized | Social | Creative | Leader |
On-time | Peacemakers | Self-centered | Mature |
Know-it-all | Independent | Financially irresponsible | Dependable |
Bossy | Secretive | Competitive | Demanding |
Responsible | May feel life is unfair | Bored easily | Unforgiving |
Adult-pleaser | Strong negotiator | Likes to be pampered | Private |
Obeys the rules | Generous | Sense of humor | Sensitive |
According to my own experience with my siblings, i think that some characters is similar and some are not..
My brother the eldest of all, became responsible when he reach his 20s... he is also an adult pleaser .. haha and that does irritate me..sometimes...and he obeys rules, not all but mostly..also a natural leader and on-time always..so kinda most of the traits can be seen..but some are not though..
In the middle , its me and my sis. So lets just compare the traits with ME.. I am flexible and easy-going..i can adjust most of the time..and its so true i am the peacemaker of the family..i am also very generous ..quite secretive too..i think all the traits do match me.
Now,my little sis..all the traits match my younger sister traits perfectly. hehe.. She is very creative, she always makes something new out of the waste paper and boxes. She is also financially irresponsible. she also get bored easily.. She also has a great sense of humor..
What i would like to conclude that birth traits depends on the order and also mainly on the situation the child is brought up..
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